Shanna Moakler is claiming that Kim Kardashian performed an element within the breakdown of her marriage to ex-husband Travis Barker.
Throughout her Wednesday, January 10, look on the “Dumb Blonde” podcast, Moakler, 48, revealed that she and Barker, additionally 48, had been “working” on their relationship when she was despatched textual content messages between him and Kardashian, 43, from an nameless supply.
“They were trying to meet up at her sister’s house to f–k,” Moakler mentioned of the alleged exchanges, claiming that when she confirmed the texts to Barker he “deleted them.” She additionally claimed that she referred to as Kardashian, who denied the affair and mentioned, “I don’t like white guys.”
Moakler and Barker tied the knot in 2004 and welcomed their youngsters, son Landon and daughter Alabama, in 2003 and 2005, respectively. They first referred to as it quits in 2006 however continued with an on-off relationship for 2 years earlier than finalizing their divorce in 2008.
Whereas opening up about pulling the plug on her romance with Barker, Moakler famous that she and the drummer “never recovered” from the drama with Kardashian, which contributed to their cut up.
Barker, for his half, has denied that something bodily occurred between him and Kim — “We went to dinner, we went to lunch,” he wrote in his 2015 memoir, Can I Say: Residing Massive, Dishonest Loss of life, and Drums, Drums, Drums. Barker is now married to Kim’s sister, Kourtney Kardashian. The twosome wed in Could 2022.
Hold scrolling for extra revelations from Moakler’s “Dumb Blonde” podcast look:
On Travis Barker and Kim Kardashian
Moakler claimed that she and Barker had been “working on things” of their relationship when somebody “anonymously texted” her the rocker’s alleged conversations with Kim. “They were trying to meet up at her sister’s house to f–k,” she mentioned. Moakler claimed the pair related when Kim was capturing for Barker’s clothes model.
“I wanted this relationship to work. I was so in love with him,” she mentioned, claiming she confirmed Barker the messages and he “deleted” them. “[He] said, ‘I don’t see anything.’”
She additionally allegedly referred to as Kim. “She just said to me, ‘I don’t like white guys,’” Moakler recalled. “I was like, ‘You’ll f–k anyone to be famous.’ … Travis and I never really recovered from that. I felt stupid.”
Moakler additionally claimed she “caught” Barker with Lindsay Lohan. “He was living the rockstar life,” she defined. “We always came back to each other.”
Regardless of their points, Moakler shared that she wished to make it work for the household. “I was so in love with him,” she mentioned. “I wanted my children to see their mother and father in love.”
On the Kardashian Household
Moakler made headlines in 2021 when Alabama and Landon took to social media to share that Moakler wasn’t at the moment of their lives. Whereas recalling their estrangement, Moakler mentioned she felt like “parental alienation” started with Landon and Alabama when Barker began courting Kourtney.
“That shit was all getting played out in the press,” she defined, noting that the Kardashian household is a “media machine.”
“I just got f—king hammered. And bullied,” she continued. “And over my f–king kids. Who does that to someone with their own children? F–k you, that family.”
Moakler referred to as the well-known brood “disgusting,” noting that she would “never want to know them.”
“I’m tired of people shitting on me. I don’t have to like that f–king family,” she mentioned. “I’m not afraid of them and I don’t like them. I removed myself. I took a step back.”
On Travis Barker’s Aircraft Crash
After Barker was concerned in a September 2008 airplane crash that killed 4 folks and left him with third-degree burns on 65 p.c of his physique, Moakler claimed she was making an attempt to attach the musician together with his youngsters when she found emails of Barker bashing her parenting model.
“We got his computer … We were hoping him seeing the kids would give him the strength to keep fighting,” she defined. “When I was setting up his computer … I looked in his email and I saw all the emails from the women. That didn’t bother me, but I saw all these comments in these emails about what a shitty mother I was. I couldn’t f–king believe that he was the one behind some of those comments. I went home and cried in my mother’s arms for hours.”
Moakler famous that “looking back now, I probably should’ve licked my wounds until he recovered.”
On Gerard Butler Rumors
Moakler shared {that a} misunderstanding between her and Barker over Moakler’s friendship with Gerard Butler additionally performed an element of their divorce.
“I was going out, getting drunk. I was friends with Gerard Butler,” she mentioned. “I saw him at the club and the paparazzi took pictures of us and made it seem like I was kissing him. I wasn’t. Travis saw it … and we never recovered.”
Moakler mentioned that after the incident, Barker was “convinced” she had cheated on him however the pair ended up “living together” for the good thing about their youngsters. “We were coparents,” she defined. “We wanted to be there for our kids. Until like almost 2014.”
The twosome continued to share a house till Moakler met now-ex Brian Sollima. The duo bought “serious” so she advised Barker, “I can’t be living with you anymore.”
“I stopped talking to [Travis] around 2014,” she continued. “We started following each other right before [Kourtney]. We still coparent. My oldest daughter is 24. My son is 20 years old. He’s living with his girlfriend [Charli D’Amelio]. They’re all talented.”
On Why Her Marriage With Travis Barker Broke Down
“He didn’t want to be known as a couple or a reality star,” she mentioned, referring to the exes MTV present, Meet the Barkers. “He wanted to be known as a musician. He was so punk rock. He put an end to it [the show]. I think for him, he was the star. When it became about us as a couple, I wanted to be a power couple, he didn’t want that.”
On Travis Barker and Paris Hilton
Moakler claimed that after she and Barker first separated, she and Paris Hilton had a verbal altercation at Hyde nightclub in Los Angeles. (Moakler alleged that Barker had an affair with Hilton throughout their marriage.)
“That was sort of the end of it all. He went to Paris,” she mentioned. “At the time I guess he was talking to Kim too.”
Regardless of their issues, Moakler claimed she nonetheless helped Barker get sober after he had points on tour. “It was like some Johnny Cash type shit,” she mentioned. “Everyone wanted to be a rockstar. They needed him to go party and drink and meet bitches and feel cool. He had a family. We got back together and we were trying to heal over that.”
On Falling for Oscar De La Hoya
“We just looked into each other’s eyes and it was just, like, ding. That was it. We had quite a whirlwind there,” she mentioned of her romance with Oscar La Hoya, whom she started courting in 1997. She famous that whereas the boxer “does drink a lot,” he’s additionally a “very fun” particular person.” (La Hoya finally popped the query however the pair referred to as off their engagement in 2000.)
“He loves to sing. He’s very social,” she mentioned. “He was 25 when I met him. We were like babies.”
Moakler shared that she bought pregnant with their daughter, Atiana, six months after assembly La Hoya, 50, and the twosome moved in collectively.
“We were madly in love,” she mentioned. “I think our first date, like, I went to Big Bear and we took a private jet to Vegas. I remember people being like, ‘Champ, champ!’ I didn’t really know anything about the boxing world or him really. He’s very romantic. We just fell in love.”
On the Breakup With Oscar De La Hoya
Moakler claimed La Hoya did her “pretty dirty” with alleged infidelity after the delivery of their daughter.
“[Atiana] was about 1 and a half, two years old. There were all these third parties,” she claimed. “He just lost his first fight. … I met him at Universal, and said, ‘Do you want this anymore?”
Moakler mentioned that La Hoya advised her they’d reset their romance after he bought again from capturing Late Night time With David Letterman. “It was everything I wanted to hear in that moment,” she added.
Based on Moakler, La Hoya then attended the Latin Grammy Awards in Los Angeles with Mille Corretjer with out giving her a heads-up.
“There he is holding hands with his now ex-wife. I just remember I lost my breath,” she recalled. “There was no backlash [publicly]. I didn’t stand a chance. The next day they had a lawyer come to the house and say, you and the baby need to move out. It just became just a shitshow whirlwind. He never called me again. He had his assistant [tell me we were done]. I really thought in that moment that my life was over.”
Moakler additionally claimed that she “quit everything” for La Hoya as a result of he “did not want me working.”
On Claims Daughter Atiana Didn’t See Oscar De La Hoya Till She Was ‘About 16’
Moakler recalled an alleged dialog about little one assist after her cut up from La Hoya.
“He said, I won’t see you or the baby until she’s 16 [if she sued him for palimony],” she claimed. “He got out of the car, I’ll never forget this, and he goes, I have more money than God. Don’t be too hard on me. And he left. I cried. I sued him for palimony, and I won. I really didn’t have a choice.”
She added, “He didn’t see the baby and I until she was about 16. She didn’t know her father growing up. They’ve made amends. He’s made amends with me. He’s apologized.”
On Her Relationship With Her Kids
“I have a great relationship with my kids,” she mentioned. “Parental alienation is a real thing. I raised all my kids and I did a good job. My kids and I never had any bumps in the road until my ex-husband [Travis] started dating a Kardashian crew. I’m very confident in who I am as a mother. I’m very close with my kids.”
On Travis Barker Being the Love of Her Life Over Oscar De La Hoya
Moakler recalled first assembly Barker whereas on the Commonplace in L.A.
“I didn’t know who Blink-182 was,” she defined. “He was in the middle of a divorce [from first wife Melissa Kennedy]. I was like, ‘I don’t want to deal with a guy going through a divorce,” she recalled. “Then the next week [I went back]. Travis was there again. This time, he came up to me, and I said, ‘What’s your sign’ or something like that. We went back to his hotel, listening to music.”
Moakler shared that when the pair kissed, she thought, “Holy shit, I just met the love of my life” and she or he bought pregnant six months later. “Travis is definitely more the love of my life in more ways than Oscar,” she shared.