Hugh Hefner‘s widow, Crystal Hefner, is getting loads off her chest in her new memoir, wherein she talks about, amongst different issues, what her intercourse life was like with the late Playboy founder.
In an excerpt of Solely Say Good Issues: Surviving Playboy and Discovering Myself obtained by Folks, the 37-year-old writes there was zero kissing, romance or intimacy with Hugh over the course of their practically 10 years collectively. Crystal began courting Hugh in January 2009 following his relationship along with his former “No. 1 girl,” Holly Madison. They mentioned “I do” in December 2012. Crystal was Hugh’s third spouse, as he was beforehand married to Kimberley Conrad and Millie Williams, respectively.
However the first evening they met — at a Halloween social gathering on the famed Playboy mansion — Crystal writes about being picked to affix Hugh and a bunch of ladies upstairs for an evening of debauchery that included weed and intercourse.
“This was a well-oiled and well-practiced sequence of events. One that went the same exact way every time,” Crystal writes in her e-book. “Picking some girls from the party and bringing them up. Changing into the uniform for the job: silk pajamas. The dimming of the lights. The music. The porn. Passing the pot. And then the sex.”
As Crystal tells it, doing the deed was “odd and robotic,” a lot in order that each time she had intercourse with him they’d play the very same Madonna tune on repeat. Each. Single. Time. And there was additionally by no means any eye contact. As an alternative, Crystal writes Hugh would stare upward on the strategically positioned mirror above the mattress.
“There was nothing sexy about it,” she continues. “It was about power and control and leverage. It was a performance. I was auditioning for a part.”
In her eyes, Hugh was hardly the playboy the world made him out to be, and he or she gives fairly the blunt evaluation when it got here to her intercourse life with Hef.
“He seemed less sex-savvy than some of the teenage boys I’d been with years ago,” she writes. “It was clear to me Hef had never taken a moment in his entire life to figure out how to please someone else.”
Not lengthy after tying the knot, Crystal shares that intercourse with Hugh led to 2014. She mentioned she felt “relieved” with now not having to be “keeping up the Playboy charade for Hef, for the public.”
Hefner died in September 2017. He was 91. Following his loss of life, Crystal remembered Hefner as a “kind and humble soul who opened up his life and home to the world.”
“He changed my life, he saved my life,” she added. “He made me feel loved every single day. He was a beacon to the world, a force unlike anything else. There never has and never will be another Hugh M. Hefner. I join the world in mourning. I thank you for all of your condolences. To the people leaving sentiments at the front gate, we see you and grieve with you.”
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